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Family Pictures 2015

Well, I made them do it again.  The boys (including the grown one!) suffered through family pictures for their mother's (and prosperity's) sake.  Haha!  Of course, this is the best version of ourselves.  Or as hubs says, not reality.  

I definitely admit there's some truth to that.  For instance, it's true that in reality the oldest child won't wear jeans to save his life.  It's sporty pants or nothing.  And you should've seen his face when I showed him the sweater I picked out.  But, by golly if he isn't one handsome stud muffin sporting that thing!  Oh and speaking of sweaters, the hubs had a similar look on his face when he saw his new outfit.  He relented when I assured him that half the mannequins at Kohl's were dressed just like that. ;)  It's true...wearing my hair down and curling it?!  That sure doesn't happen every day.  And you won't catch me with those earrings in for fear they'd be ripped out of my earlobes by one of my rowdy boys.  It's true...it was freezing cold this day and the baby was not having it.  In between each one of these fabulous shots he was curled in a ball on daddy's shoulders crying "cold! cold!"  It's true...lil' peanut is actually just as cool in real life as he looks in these pictures.  He wore his hair "spikey" at his own request and he adored his new stylin' outfit.  Of course, on the way there he declared that he hated family pictures and vehemently refused to smile until it was his turn in front of the camera and we told him he wouldn't get candy and cocoa if he didn't stop making his angry face.  

Oh, family pictures.  I love you.  Not only do you make us look really good, you freeze in time this precious family of mine.  You give me pause as I reflect on how we have grown and changed and increased our capacity for love with the addition of each of our sons.  But, mostly I love you because I know your story.  Facebook just sees our coordinating outfits and happy smiles.  They don't know that when I came downstairs after getting myself ready, my middle guy gave me the biggest smile and declared how beautiful I was.  Or that our oldest kept making our photographer laugh with his snarky comments.  Or that the baby flashed his signature shy grin and tried to run away from the camera every time we sat him down.  Those are the untold stories of family pictures.  

So, hubby is right.  On the surface these pictures are maybe not "reality."  But, when I look a little deeper I see us pretty much just how we are. :)  (And I'm enjoying what may be our last time of coordinating clothes and combed hair as I agreed to a "come as you are" shoot next time.  I'm afraid once the boys get a taste of that they'll never let me put sweaters on them again.) 

The Dynamic Duo

Lil' peanut had been in our family just over a year when his baby brother was born.  It was quick.  Especially in comparison to his big brother who had almost 6 years to be, not just the baby, but the only!  It was one more big change in a series of changes for our peanut.  Another "uprooting" in his little life.  I think it's fair to say he would have had every right to go into his new role as big brother kicking and screaming.  

But, he didn't.  He entered into this new realm of being a "big" with a quiet confidence and a grace quite uncommon for a three year old.  That's not to say they don't have their moments...they do.  But, something pretty neat has been happening these last few months as our baby grows in to a toddler.  Their relationship is blossoming and these two have become quite the duo.  More often than not, they can be found playing together.  Playing well together.  Trains are their favorite!  C and peanut play, yes.  And despite the large age gap, C and the baby play too.  But, not like these two.  They seem to be more than just brothers...they're best buds.

I started to notice it when baby first began to chatter and lil' peanut carried on with him like he knew just what he was saying.  It never failed when the baby was fussing over something that we couldn't figure out, our middle man could tell us exactly what he wanted!  It really was uncanny.  And now they have little conversations all throughout the day that just make me smile.  Lots of times it's big brother explaining what they're going to do together and then an enthusiastic "Kay!" from little brother.  Baby can say his name now which just thrills peanut.  They are just about the cutest thing ever at preschool drop off and always elicit lots of awes from the other moms as they go about their goodbye ritual of hugs, kisses and fistbumps.  They are quite the pair!

I'm not naive enough to think it will always be like this between the two of them, but I sure do hope that the foundation for a life long friendship is forming between these little ones.  

Let's Go Royals!!!

I won't claim to be a super fan or anything, but I do like baseball!  And I grew up going to Royal's games, so watching them win the World Series was pretty darn cool!  Considering it has been 30 years since this happened, we knew we had to seize the opportunity to celebrate and go out for the victory parade.  The crowds were expected to be huge, so we knew one thing, get there early.  C wanted a front row spot for the parade so he was ready to get there early too.  So ready that he woke us up at 5:05 that morning.  Honestly, going into this I thought it was going to be a disaster...3 kids, hours of standing, thousands of people, very few bathrooms. ;)  Boy did my kids surprise me.  All three of them did so well.  Our early arrival secured us great parking and a perfect spot to watch the parade.  (And we even had time to grab Starbucks and hit up MeMa's Bakery for some delish breakfast to-go)  The day was truly wonderful!  I'm so glad we decided to go and make some memories.  #Foreverroyal  :)

Halloween 2015

Boys at the Farm

Hubby is getting ready for deer season and had a day trip out to the farm planned to do some prep work.  The last time he took the big kids out there for the weekend, the baby was so heartbroken.  He stood in the driveway and cried hollering "go, daddy, me go, daddy" while they drove off.  We think he's got another year or so before he can join the ranks of the "big kids" so I decided to tag along this time so he could go too.  He loved it!  It was fun to see the boys in their little happy place.  And the fall foliage was just beautiful.  We had a great time crunching around in the leaves.  I captured some sweet pictures of my handsome boys and I'm once again reminded how quickly they are growing up on me.  Love these brothers!

 

 

Hold on for Fall!

Whew!  I feel like fall hit and we are just flying through the days!  I don't think we're overscheduled (I like for the kids to only do one activity at a time) but we seem to rarely have a day "off" lately.  It's all good things, just busy.  C has been enjoying the soccer season and doing well on his team.  Lil' peanut opted out of soccer because in his own words..."I don't want to do soccer cuz I will get mad and push all the people down."  Haha!  That child is so in touch with his feelings, and can usually articulate them pretty well.  He loved swimming lessons this summer so he's back at it in the indoor pool here on base.  Poor guy says the water is freezing though and shivers through most of the class, but still has a smile on his face.  I even got pumpkin baby in on the fun and take him one morning a week to a parent/child gymnastics class.  It's seriously the cutest thing ever!  His personality makes it easy so it's actually really fun for me and not stressful at all.

 

I need to blog about baby's 2nd birthday...and maybe fill in his baby book while I'm at it.  Ack!  Life is just busier with 3 kids than it was with 2.  Busier and louder and much, much fuller too!  I'm often exhausted, sometimes overwhelmed, but always glad to have them all. 

 

A few older pics...

 

Loving on the Old Navy dog while mama shopped.  Haha!

A bug discovery.

Playing in the sandbox.  Pumpkin often wants his big brother to go out back with him as soon as he gets home from prek.

The boys 1st Royals game :)

Sitting with big brother during the school's 9/11 service.

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C at soccer practice!  I've been so proud of him this season.  He's always been pretty good at soccer, but I love watching him develop a stronger sense of teamwork and sportsmanship.  He was so thrilled he scored TWO goals at last night's game. :)

Zoo Church

There are a few things that I really don't like about moving.  Finding a church is one of them.  There's just something so awkward about "church shopping" as we affectionately call it.  Add in a kiddo who really struggles with change and a baby who really struggles with going to a nursery without mama and it can be a pretty rough experience for everyone.  I tried a few churches with my sidekick C who I can always count on for honest feedback. "Eh, it was ok." "Boring." "Mom! They have video games!!!!  Best church ever!"  After the video game church (let me just say when your kid can tell you every little detail about who played which character, what the scores were, and which levels were played and remember NOTHING else...that's a problem!) there was a new church I wanted to try.  It was a Sunday that hubby had drill and I decided I wasn't up for flying solo with the kids so instead I declared it to be "Church at the Zoo" day!  I somehow even convinced Nana and Papa to play hooky on a Sunday morning and join us as we celebrated all the unique and interesting animals God filled the world with. :)  We had a blast! 

 

 

Usually I have to force them to let me get one picture of all of them together, but this day they were so into taking pictures.  I was loving it.

He was freaking Nana out with his daddy long leg friend.

Not five seconds after I told him "Papa said don't get poop on his hat" he got pooped on!

He got such a kick out of that!

Our first church at the zoo was quite the success.  I don't think we'll make it a regular habit, but it was certainly a great time to spend outside enjoying creation with my little blessings.